When we say ”Children with special needs”, we mean children who are born handicapped or disfigured in some ways. Among them are autistic children,children who suffer from cerebral problems and others.
What on earth cause or causes these kinds of inborn problems? Well,many times,the causes are seen and known,while other rare times,humans can’t tell. When parents have children with special needs,what should they do?
When a woman is pregnant,she is happy right? What really is the reason for her joy and happiness? The fact that a baby,the fruit of the womb,is growing right in her body. It is a miracle,only the best magician in the universe can perform! Sadly however,some childbirth cause not only pains,but sadness to their parents. When you give birth to a child and discover that he or she is an imbecile,how will you feel? Joyful?
We have heard situations and cases where parents who have children with special needs give their signatories that Doctors should go ahead and terminate the lives of their children at their very young stage. Reasons given are that,they,the parents,cannot accept imbecile,disfigured child or any child with special need as their own. Yet,others said that they do not have the heart or mind to bear the challenges of living with any child with special needs.
The truth is this: Whatever you give birth to is your child! Whether the baby is one living with albinism,autism,abnormality,or anything else.That is your child! No child is deformed and sent right in your stomach to be with you. Therefore,when you have a child with special needs,accept it and understand that that child needs special needs in order to survive and live.
Research has proven that parents who have children with special needs can really be happy,fulfilled and succeed as parents,only if they happily accept their situations. Happily,no deformed child is totally handicapped. Look very deeply,and you shall find a rare gem there in them!
It has been said time and again that children with special needs are the happiest children on earth! Nothing ever bother them except the bad feelings and reactions of their parents and body members. Since the only thing handicapped children need are special needs,parents should understand that,and pay them their dues.
There are various ways parents can pay attention to their children with special needs for those who think they are so busy to care or do not have the heart to do so. Go get a nurse or a nanny to do your hard work for you and pay the pains with your cash!
In summary,we are saying that the worst thing that can happen to parent is not having a child or children who are handicapped or deformed,but neglecting their special needs. When a child with special needs is neglected,the result is that his problems automatically add up.
Every child has his own problems. Whatever your child’s problem is,help him live,help him endure!!!